Lesson 4 of 9

The shape of a good ask

Four parts that turn a vague request into one the AI gets right on the first try.

The problem with most prompts

A typical beginner prompt looks like this:

Write me a blog post about AI in education.

Then the user is frustrated that the output is generic. Of course it's generic — the request was generic.

A good description has four parts.

Part 1 — The goal, in outcome terms

Not "write a blog post." What happens after someone reads it?

Write a 600-word blog post so a skeptical parent of a middle-schooler understands what changed this year in how their kid uses AI at home.

Notice: audience (skeptical parent), format (600 words), outcome (they understand what changed).

Part 2 — The constraints

What must be true about the output?

  • Written in plain language, no jargon.
  • First-person (I, me) — the author has a kid too.
  • Cites 2 sources, one of which is a teacher or parent.

Constraints are where most AI collaborations go right. Without them, you'll get generic competence. With them, you'll get your output.

Part 3 — The non-constraints

This is the part most people skip. Say out loud what's not required:

  • You don't have to use the word "AI" in the headline.
  • You don't have to defend AI — the piece can be skeptical.
  • You can be funny if that fits.

Without explicit permission, the AI will play it safe and produce the blandest plausible version.

Part 4 — The evidence of success

How will you know it's good? Describe the check, not the criterion.

  • A skeptical parent reading this should not feel talked down to.
  • I should be able to read it to my partner without cringing.
  • A teacher should recognize the scenarios.

This sounds abstract. It works anyway — the AI uses these cues to steer the draft.

Homework

Take a real request you've made of AI recently. Rewrite it with all four parts. Paste the rewritten version into the AI tutor on this lesson's sidebar and ask: "Is there any ambiguity left?"

The tutor will find something. Rewrite again.

Next lesson: handing over context.


Inspired by Anthropic's "AI Fluency: Framework & Foundations".

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